The cute guy that you seem to keep running into wherever you go finally decided to stop you on the street and ask you out on a date. You know nothing about this guy. The only thing you know is that he is good looking and seems charming, that’s it. You do not know if this guy is married or a convicted rapist, or someone who likes to prey on women.
He may truly be the real deal, but you can’t just guess when it comes to dating. However, you can’t always live in fear and never go out on a date either.
Here are a few dating safety tips to help you out:
Consider a double date – There is nothing wrong with asking if you can bring a couple along on your first date together, if you would feel more comfortable doing so. He should respect and understand your request and concerns. If not, you know right away that something is wrong with the picture.
Meet in a public place – If you don’t like the idea of going out on a double or group date, meet in a public place for your first date. Go to a movie, a restaurant, or other outdoor event where there are plenty of people around. Never agree to meet him at his place for a romantic night alone. Not until you know him more.
Tell someone where you are going – Keep someone close to you informed as to where you are going, who you are going with, and what time they can expect to hear from you. Agree on a time that you can call them or they can call you throughout the date to check in, just so they know you are alright. Come up with a codeword you can use to let them know if things are going well, and if they are not.
If the date is not going well or for some reason you get uncomfortable with him, that phone call from your “friend in distress” can get you out of there quickly.
Drive yourself there – For the first date, it’s a good idea to drive yourself to wherever you are meeting up. This gives you the opportunity to leave if the date does not go well, and it keeps you from getting in a car with a stranger you do not know very well.
Watch the alcohol – Try to limit alcohol consumption on your first date together. You want to be fully alert and aware of what if going on when you are out with this guy for the first time. Besides, if he is not an honest person, he could easily slip something into your drink and harm you while you are under the influence of whatever it is that he slipped in there. If you must have a drink, have one. But keep an eye on that drink until it is gone!
Say “No!” when you need to – If your date wants to take things to the next level, and you do not want to, tell him “No!” He should respect your wishes, and if he doesn’t, get out of there quickly.
These dating safety tips are not here to scare you, but they are here to inform you of the dangers you may face while dating. This guy could turn out to be everything you dreamed of and more, or he could turn out to be the total opposite.
You need to protect yourself while dating. You never know, this guy may be just as nervous of you as you are of him, and he may just be taking the same safety precautions that you are taking.




